OtH 2020 – WE ARE VETERANS – Alister Haveron


We left home as teenagers or in our early twenties for an unknown adventure.
We loved our country enough to defend it and protect it with our own lives.
We said goodbye to friends and family and everything we knew.
We learned the basics and then we scattered in the wind to the far corners of the earth.
We found new friends and new family.
We became brothers and sisters regardless of colour, race or creed.
We had plenty of good times, and plenty of bad times.
We didn’t get enough sleep.
We sometimes drank too much.
We picked up both good and bad habits.
We worked hard and played harder.
We didn’t earn a great wage.
We experienced the happiness of mail from home and the sadness of missing important events.
We didn’t know when, or even if, we were ever going to see home again.
We grew up fast, and yet somehow, we never grew / up at all.
We fought for our freedom, as well as the freedom of others
Some of us saw actual combat, and some of us didn’t.
Some of us saw the world, and some of us didn’t.
Some of us dealt with physical warfare, most of us dealt with psychological warfare.
We have seen and experienced and dealt with things that we can’t fully describe or explain, as not all of our sacrifices were physical.
We participated in time honoured ceremonies and rituals with each other strengthening our bonds and camarderie.
Many of us married and not all those marriages survived, often due to the stress of our service
We never saw enough of our children, a constant regret but the price of being a veteran, our spouses also served their support was immeasurable.
We counted on each other to get our job done and sometimes to survive it at all.
We have dealt with victory and tragedy.
We have celebrated and mourned.
We lost too many friends and colleagues along the way.
When our adventure was over, some of us went back home. Most of us started somewhere new and some of us never came home at all.
We have told amazing and hilarious stories of our exploits and adventures, particularly when alcohol has loosened our tongues.
But some have never spoken but sadly suffered in silence.
We share an unspoken bond with each other, that most people don’t experience, and few will understand.
We speak highly of our own branch of service, and poke fun at the other branches
We know howeve, that, if needed, we will be there for our brothers and sisters and stand together as one, in a heart-beat.
Being a veteran is something that had to be earned, and it can never be taken away
It has no monetary value, but at the same time it is a priceless gift
People see a veteran and then thank them for their service.
When we see each other, we give that little upwards head nod, or a slight smile, knowing that we have shared an experienced things that most people have not.
So, from myself to the rest of the veterans out there, I commend and thank you for all that you have done and sacrificed for your country.
Try to remember the good times and forget the bad times.
Share your stories.
But most importantly. Stand tall and proud, for you have earned the right to be called a veteran

Received from Alister Haveron
( Anglicised and minor additions made.)




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